Even the most laid-back kid can come unstuck when faced with an important exam, or exams, and it’s easy to let healthy routines like getting enough rest, exercising and eating well go out of the window when they’re memorizing old test papers, making endless notes or doing last-minute cramming.
As parents, we can’t help but worry when our kids are stressed but we can help create the right environment for them and give them some useful pointers, from drawing up a revision schedule to practising mindfulness. We can also feed their brain by cooking up some healthy meals, ensure they have some time out by taking them out for walks and encourage a good sleep routine.
Here’s our top 10 tips for staying calm and focused during exam season that will help your kids stay cool and ace those tests…
Want more? Check out our great Facebook Live on exam stress with Dr Geraldine Tan, Director and Principal Psychologist at the Therapy Room .…
While it's tempting to live on takeaways during exams to save time, a nutritious home-cooked meal containing complex carbohydrates like whole grain pasta or rice that release energy slowly, will help to maintain focus and concentration throughout the day. Pair them with lean proteins like turkey, fish, eggs, and tofu, all of which support brain function. Nuts and seeds are good to snack on, as they contain healthy fats and omega 3 for brain health, while berries, especially blueberries, are rich in antioxidants and help improve cognitive function.
Make sure they're drinking plenty of water, too, as this will help them stay hydrated and focused. Be on hand for regular top-ups if you can!
Taking a break from the books is important, as it's easy to become irritable if you're on the revision all day. And if your child is feeling stressed, it becomes harder for them to concentrate and focus. What's more, exercise improves memory retention and releases endorphins to lift your mood. Schedules may be busy, but a quick 20-minute walk or bike ride should do the trick.
While getting out into nature is preferable for the energising effects of fresh air and natural light (plus a dose of Vitamin D), doing a YouTube workout at home is another option. Try this Five Minute Move with Joe Wicks or this six-minute Cardio Blast from Kids Workout.
When exams are looming, some kids (not all!) may want to stay up late on the revision, or set the alarm earlier than usual so they can hit the books before breakfast. However, lack of sleep can lead to irritability, mood swings, and increased susceptibility to stress, making it harder to manage the pressures of exams and allowing anxiety creep in.
See if you can work out a sleep routine with your kid/teen that factors in some time before bed to unwind with a relaxing book and a cup of warm milk or a hot chocolate.
It's important to prioritize self-care during exam season, and practising mindfulness is one sure-fire technique to help tackle exam stress. If you're not familiar with mindfulness, it's about focusing your awareness in the present moment.
One simple way to do this is the body scan, where you close your eyes and turn attention inwards to focus on different parts of the body, from the top of your head to the tips of your toes. Other ways to practise mindfulness include the Rise and Shine Morning Intention, such as incorporating rituals like a morning meditation, gratitude journal or mindful walk before breakfast to start the day in a positive way.
Many people suffer from stress in the lead-up to exams, and in recognition of that, there's some great resources out there. Good books worth seeking out include The Only Study Guide You'll Ever Need by Jade Bowler; How to Handle Your Exam Nerves by Katherine Bebo and Say 'No' to Exam Stress by Anthony James.
Prefer a podcast? Try Owning It: The Anxiety Podcast's episode on How To Manage Exam Anxiety or Apple's Teenage Kicks Podcast, which has an episode on How To Revise And Cope With Exam Stress.
Good blogs include Top Universities' How NOT To Cope With Exam Stress and Charles Darwin University's How To Reduce Stress In The Hours Leading Up To The Exam.
Revision can feel overwhelming but getting a schedule together can help reduce exam stress, as it enables kids to plan their time effectively and track the material covered. Rather than confronting a whole textbook, a revision timetable breaks things up to cover each day, or week. We like this GCSE timetable and this blog on preparing for IB success.
Remind your child to take small, frequent breaks to digest information. If they're the studious type, remind them that no-one can revise for six hours a day for several months. Struggling to get their head down? Set mini goals, like reviewing one module over a certain period, and build up gradually if there's time.
Tuning into our breath is one of the easiest ways to reduce stress, and the benefits of controlled breathing include lowered blood pressure and heart rate and reduced levels of stress hormones in the blood.
Techniques to try include box breathing – so called as you're breathing in a box-like shape sequence. First, breathe in, counting to four slowly.Then hold your breath for four seconds. Try to avoid inhaling or exhaling for four seconds. Next, slowly exhale through your mouth for four seconds. Repeat steps one to three until you feel re-centered.
If your kid/teen tries to do too much too soon, they'll quickly burn out. And if they leave it til the last minute, they'll feel they have no choice but to cram! Break down revision into small, manageable goals - say 2 hours in the morning and 2 in the afternoon - and take regular breaks for food, exercise, and meeting up with friends and having fun once the revision's done!
You could try suggesting to your child that they visualize themself doing well in the exams – down to observing an 'A' on the test sheet and seeing a Diploma on the bedroom wall. This can not only help them earn better scores but also reduce stress. The mental images you form tell your brain that these scenarios are real, so it's can be very powerful, even if you do it for a few minutes a day. Check out the video here for tips on how to do it!
When your child is in the midst of revision, it can be hard for them to imagine a life post-exams. That's why it's important to get a date in the diary for something to look forward to, whether that's a shopping trip or doing sports with friends, or a meal with the family at their favorite restaurant followed by a trip to the cinema.
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